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Danika reviews You Know Me Well by Nina LaCour and David Levithan

August 29, 2016 by Danika Ellis

you know me well

This book is a romp. Ever since I read Boy Meets Boy, I’ve been looking for a queer women’s equivalent: a cotton candy book that, despite any issues it addresses, fills you with a sense of hope, warmth, and happiness. This book seems to do the trick quite nicely, and it’s no surprise that it’s cowritten by David Levithan himself (though I now have to seek out Nina LaCour’s Everything Leads To You, because if it’s anything like this, it’s a must-read.)

You Know Me Well is told in alternating chapters. Mark is head-over-heels for his best friend, but despite the fact that they’ve been fooling around for years, he still can’t seem to get them in the “relationship” category. Meanwhile, Kate has fallen in love with a girl she’s never met, and is terrified at the chance of actually meeting this mystical, circus traveler, dream girl. They’re both in a topsy-turvy point in their lives when they bump into each other in a bar during Pride. They’ve seen each other at school before, but after this chance meeting, they become the other’s main source of support and guidance for this pivot point in their lives.

The book unfolds in only a week or so, but it’s a week that causes them both to reconsider their lives’ trajectory. They are finding themselves, deciding their priorities, considering whether they want to be whole new people. Having someone new–someone who understands and is also not invested in them staying the same–is hugely affirming for both of them. This is a story celebrating queer friendship, and that’s what is at the heart of it. That’s what makes me want to hug this book. In addition to the main characters, there are many queer minor characters (though, sadly they are [almost?] all white, and there’s not a lot of trans representation).

If you’ve been craving a fluffy read, this one will definitely hit the spot. I think it would be perfect to give to a teenager just coming out as gay or lesbian, because it so hopeful, and it celebrates the queer community. I’m really glad that this book is out there, and I hope that it finds its way into the hands of the people who could use it most.

Categories: Lesbrary Reviews, Uncategorized
Tags: , ****, danika, David Levithan, fluffy, happy, light, Nina LaCour, YA, young adult

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Comments

  1. omnivorebibliosaur says

    August 29, 2016 at 10:50 am

    I finished the audiobook version last week and had a lot of fun listening. I definitely agree that it’s fluffy, but not insubstantial. So much happened to the characters over that one week that sometimes I thought more time had passed! Narrators Emma Galvin (I recognized her voice right away from the Divergent trilogy <3) and Matthew Brown provide immersive performances. I'll have to look for more of Nina LaCour, since she's new to me 🙂

    • Danika @ The Lesbrary says

      August 29, 2016 at 12:47 pm

      Agreed! It definitely felt like more time was covered! It does seem like it would be a good listen on audio.

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